The UC teaches college students what being part of a church family really means.
In college you learn to define what “faith” means to you. Will you believe in something? If so, who? Why? Will you join fellow believers or not? Sometimes it seems that establishing their own sense of morality and faith is not a primary concern of students, but it really plays a huge role in what their college years will consist of.
I joined the University Center for a few reasons
A) My parents knew a lot of people at the church from the years they’d lived in Stillwater. If they found out I wasn’t going to church – I’d be in huge trouble. Plus, I even had relatives in town. I was doomed.
B) Habit. Attending church was just what I did. Not attending was incompatible with my lifestyle.
C) My roommate, Heather, was going to join the UC. I couldn’t imagine how guilty I’d feel if I didn’t go.
At the beginning, I really didn’t want to join the UC, basically because my parents wanted me to and talked about it all the time. I think all teenagers want to spite their parents, if just for kicks.
Regardless of my desire to rebel, I became a faithful UC attendee, even when I really didn’t want to go to events. It seemed that no matter how much I didn’t want to do something yet did, I had an awesome time and learned more tidbits about God and our relationship with Him. Eventually I really wanted to hang out with these people who became my treasured friends. In fact, I began viewing them as brothers and sisters in Christ.
The UC has a tradition of teaching students to love each other through activities, service and fellowship. Through subtle ways, the UC taught me to consider our body of members a family. People genuinely cared for each other, flaws, irritating habits and sins – everything. Sometimes we didn’t handle our frustration with each other exceptionally well, but… each of us were (and are) “works in progress.”
One awesome aspect of determining what kind of faith (if any) you’ll have is that you decide what it will be. Ultimately, it’s your decision if you’ll pledge your life to God or go down another path. Ultimately, that was (and still is) one of the biggest joys of being part of the UC family – each of us has chosen to pursue God and, for this part of our journey, to do it together. Our common goal to grow more like Jesus bonds us to one another throughout our college years and after them.
I invite anyone who isn’t sure of their faith and really doesn’t want to participate in a church, to come to the University Center regardless of their fear and dread. Yes, taking the step to join something you’re uncertain of can be absolutely terrifying, but it’s worth it. Take the plunge.